friend
noun
1. A person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2. A person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.
3. A person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?
It would seem a simple thing, defining who and what a friend is. Deciding who is your friend is a fairly simple process.
Do I like that person?
Yes.
Does that person like me?
Allegedly.
Do we enjoy each other’s company?
Mostly.
Okay…then, I think we can safely assume that the two people cited above are friends.
Friendships have been forged since man decided to get up off his haunches and walk on two legs. Of course, back then deciding who was your friend had more to do with the amount of trust in mutuality. Could you go to sleep knowing that person will remain awake and alert to danger? Will that person share his food when you have none? Will that person help or protect you in times you are not able to help or protect yourself?
Those were weighty considerations and friendships were born more out of the ability to survive another sunset rather than if they made a good Spades partner.
People have become friends basically the same way for hundreds or thousands of years. But that all changed not too long ago. The method by which many people became friends happened with the flip of a switch…the switch that turned on the Internet.